by roottn | Apr 13, 2024 | brightwomen.net es+mujeres-finlandesas que es la novia del pedido por correo
So how do you broach the subject of dating and romantic love with your teens? Romantic interests are normal Romantic interests are a completely normal part of growing up. However, it’s what teens do with that interest and how you handle your teen’s emerging feelings that matters. So when should kids start dating? How young is too young? Parents shouldn’t rush their young teens into intense romantic relationships. Neurologically, they are still trying to figure out who they are, and teens can become clingy and over-attached when they try to find their identity or meaning in a romantic partner. Evidence suggests younger teens often experience more costs and fewer benefits when involved in a romantic relationship-that is, teens describe their early relationships as more stressful and less supportive (compared to older teens and young adults who find the levels of affection, companionship and intimacy more rewarding). So when we encourage our kids to delay dating until the latter part of the teen years, we aren’t being cruel. (As an aside, teens are not misfits if they are not yet romantically involved by the later high school or early young adult years either.) Be respectful It is frustrating to teens when adults label another 13-year-old as ‘your boyfriend’ or ‘your girlfriend’, and have chuckle about it. Nothing kills a great friendship quicker, so please stop! Continually asking and teasing teens about a boyfriend/girlfriend when they simply enjoy hanging out with a person puts pressure on them (and they get enough pressure from their peers already). The implication is that having a romantic relationship is what defines them and they’re somehow...
